When I Grow Up
FURTHER DEVOTIONAL THOUGHTS:
1. The Search for Identity
Each of us, at some point in life, embarks on a search for who we truly are. This search can take many forms, whether through changes in appearance, personality, or lifestyle. We often feel dissatisfaction with certain parts of ourselves, trying to "reinvent" or "rebrand" ourselves in an attempt to become someone new. But the truth is, no matter how hard we try, we can't fully change who we are on our own.
In the story of young Jesus in the temple, we see someone who doesn't need to search for identity—He already knows who He is. Even as a twelve-year-old, Jesus was clear on His divine mission and His relationship with God the Father. His words, "Didn’t you know I must be about my Father’s business?" (Luke 2:49), reveal that His identity as the Son of God was not something He was discovering—it was an inherent truth.
In our own lives, we often feel like we need to change everything to find fulfillment. But Jesus teaches us that true identity comes not from self-reinvention, but from being rooted in who we were created to be by God. The deeper we seek God’s will for us, the more we discover our true selves in His purpose.
Reflection: Do you feel lost or confused about who you are? Take time to sit with God in prayer, and ask Him to reveal your identity as His beloved child. Trust that He knows you better than you know yourself.
2. Transformation Begins in the Heart
Many people believe that transformation is something that can be achieved through self-discipline or outward actions. While discipline is important, true transformation must start at the heart level. This kind of transformation isn’t something we can produce on our own, but it is a work that God does in us when we submit to Him.
The Bible teaches that we are all in need of a radical heart change. We cannot simply "rededicate" ourselves or try to change by our own efforts. We need the transformative power of Christ to make us new. It’s only through the grace of God that we can be truly changed, from the inside out.
Reflection: Is there an area in your life where you are trying to change on your own strength? Surrender it to God and ask Him to change your heart in that area. Trust that He is the one who truly transforms us.
3. Seeking Wisdom from God
Jesus’ example in the temple offers us a powerful lesson in how to approach wisdom. He didn’t shy away from learning. He actively sought out the teachers, listened to them, and asked thoughtful questions. Even as the Son of God, He took time to learn and grow in understanding.
This example challenges us to be intentional in our own pursuit of wisdom. Far too often, we stop growing in our faith because we’re comfortable with the level of understanding we already have. But Jesus models a hunger for deeper knowledge of God, His Word, and His will.
Reflection: Are you eager to learn more about God and grow in your faith? Set aside regular time for study, prayer, and reflection on His Word. Ask God to give you the same hunger for wisdom that Jesus had, and trust that He will reveal Himself more deeply to you.
4. A New Identity in Christ
The truth that Jesus was God the Son, even at a young age, reminds us that our identity is shaped not by our efforts, but by who God says we are. Jesus didn’t need to "grow into" His identity—He always was who He was. Likewise, we don’t need to strive to create a new identity for ourselves. When we accept Christ, we are made new. We are no longer defined by our past mistakes, our flaws, or our insecurities, but by our relationship with Jesus.
The Bible tells us that in Christ, we are new creations (2 Corinthians 5:17). Our old self is gone, and we are given a new identity in Him. This identity isn’t something we can earn—it’s a gift of grace.
Reflection: Take a moment to reflect on your identity in Christ. How does it change the way you see yourself when you remember that you are a beloved child of God, fully forgiven and redeemed in Christ? Let that truth shape how you live today.
5. God’s Timing and Purpose
Jesus' words to His parents in Luke 2:49 also point to a profound truth: God's purpose and timing are perfect. Even at the age of twelve, Jesus was already beginning to step into His mission to save the world. He knew that His life had a divine purpose, and that purpose would unfold in God’s perfect timing.
In our own lives, we sometimes struggle with impatience, wondering why things aren’t moving as quickly as we’d like. But God’s plans for us are always good, and His timing is always right. He knows exactly what we need and when we need it, and He is faithful to accomplish His purpose in our lives.
Reflection: Are you feeling impatient or uncertain about God’s timing in your life? Trust that He is at work in you, and His plans for you are always for your good. Surrender your own timeline to Him and rest in His faithfulness.
May these thoughts guide you into deeper reflection on who you are in Christ and how you can grow in your relationship with Him. As you seek Him, may you find your true identity, your purpose, and your transformation in His love and grace.
DISCUSSION QUESTIONS
1. Understanding True Identity
In what ways do we often try to change or reinvent ourselves to fit a certain image or expectation?
How does the story of Jesus in the temple (Luke 2:40-52) challenge the way we think about our own identity?
What does it mean to truly know who we are in Christ, and how does that shape the way we live?
2. The Process of Transformation
Why is it difficult for people to experience lasting transformation on their own? What do we need to experience true change?
In what areas of your life do you feel like you are trying to change or improve on your own strength? How can you invite God into those areas for true transformation?
How does the concept of being “made new” in Christ give you hope for personal change?
3. Seeking Wisdom and Understanding
Why is it important to seek wisdom from others in our faith journey, just as Jesus sought out teachers in the temple?
What role does asking questions and being open to learning play in our spiritual growth?
How can we create a habit of actively seeking out spiritual teachers, studying God's Word, and asking thoughtful questions to grow in understanding?
4. Embracing Our New Identity in Christ
How does knowing that our identity is rooted in Christ change the way we see ourselves and others?
What are some of the things that we may try to define ourselves by (e.g., career, achievements, relationships), and how does understanding our identity in Christ challenge those definitions?
What does it look like practically to live out our identity in Christ each day?
5. Trusting in God’s Timing and Purpose
How do we tend to struggle with impatience or frustration regarding God's timing in our lives?
Reflecting on Jesus’ awareness of His mission even as a child, how can we grow in trusting God’s timing for our own lives, even when it feels like things are moving slowly?
In what ways can we actively surrender our own timelines and expectations to God and trust His perfect purpose for us?
6. Living Out Our Calling
Jesus’ words about being in His Father’s house speak to His deep understanding of His calling. How does this shape your perspective on living out God’s purpose in your own life?
What does it mean to be “about our Father’s business” in our daily lives? How can we align our actions with God's mission for us?
How do you see your daily responsibilities and interactions as part of God's calling on your life?
7. The Role of Family in Our Faith Journey
How did Jesus’ words to His parents in the temple illustrate the tension between family ties and devotion to God’s will?
In what ways does following Christ affect our relationships with family members or those closest to us?
How can we navigate the challenges of living out our faith when our family members may not share the same beliefs?
These questions can help guide a thoughtful discussion around the themes of identity, transformation, seeking wisdom, trusting God's timing, and living out our calling in Christ. Feel free to adjust or expand upon these questions as needed for your group!
WEEKLY DEVOTIONAL FOLLOW UP
Monday: The Search for True Identity
Scripture: Luke 2:40-52
"Jesus... was about his Father’s business" (Luke 2:49)
Devotional Thought: On Monday, we often start the week with a sense of looking for purpose. This is a good time to reflect on our own search for identity and purpose. In the passage where Jesus is found in the temple at the age of twelve, He expresses His deep understanding of His identity: He is the Son of God, and His life is centered around doing His Father's will. Just as Jesus was clear on His identity, we are invited to seek clarity about our own identity in Christ. As we go through this week, let's ask ourselves: What do I believe defines me? Is it my work, my achievements, or my identity in Christ?
Reflection Question:
What aspects of your life need to be more aligned with the truth of your identity in Christ?
Tuesday: Transformation from the Inside Out
Scripture: Romans 12:1-2
“Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind” (Romans 12:2)
Devotional Thought: Transformation is a key theme in our walk with Christ. In the sermon, we learned that true transformation comes from God, not our own effort. On Tuesday, reflect on how God desires to renew our hearts and minds. It’s not about changing outward behaviors first, but about being transformed from within. As you consider your relationship with Christ today, allow Him to renew your thoughts, your motivations, and your desires. Ask God to help you focus on His will, not on external pressure or self-reliance.
Reflection Question:
Where do you need God to bring about a transformation in your heart and mind today?
Wednesday: Seeking Wisdom and Understanding
Scripture: Proverbs 2:3-6
"If you seek it like silver and search for it as for hidden treasures, then you will understand the fear of the Lord and find the knowledge of God" (Proverbs 2:4-5)
Devotional Thought: Jesus, even at a young age, sought wisdom and understanding by engaging with the teachers in the temple. He asked questions and listened to their answers, showing us that seeking knowledge and growing in understanding is vital to living out our faith. On Wednesday, dedicate time to seek wisdom—whether it’s reading Scripture, listening to a sermon, or engaging in meaningful conversations with others about God’s Word. God promises that if we seek wisdom with all our hearts, we will find it.
Reflection Question:
What are some practical ways you can seek wisdom and grow in understanding today?
Thursday: The Call to Be About Our Father's Business
Scripture: Matthew 6:33
“But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you” (Matthew 6:33)
Devotional Thought: Jesus understood His mission clearly, even as a child. He knew that His primary purpose was to be about His Father’s business. On Thursday, take time to evaluate where your priorities lie. Are there things that have taken precedence over God's call on your life? Are there areas where you’re focusing on the temporary rather than the eternal? Ask God to help you align your heart and your actions with His will, seeking His kingdom first in all areas of your life.
Reflection Question:
What are some ways you can refocus on God’s mission for your life today?
Friday: Embracing the Struggles of Faith
Scripture: Philippians 3:12-14
"Not that I have already obtained all this, or have already arrived at my goal, but I press on to take hold of that for which Christ Jesus took hold of me" (Philippians 3:12)
Devotional Thought: Living out our faith isn’t always easy. It involves pressing on through challenges, misunderstandings, and opposition. Just as Jesus’ devotion to His Father’s will eventually led to hardship and rejection, we too are called to follow Christ even in difficult circumstances. On Friday, remind yourself that the struggles of faith are not signs of failure but opportunities for growth and deeper dependence on God. Press forward with the confidence that He who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion (Philippians 1:6).
Reflection Question:
What obstacles or struggles are you facing in your walk with Christ, and how can you press on in faith today?
Saturday: Resting in Your True Identity in Christ
Scripture: 2 Corinthians 5:17
"Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here!" (2 Corinthians 5:17)
Devotional Thought: As the week comes to a close, take time to reflect on the truth that in Christ, you are a new creation. Your old self has passed away, and a new identity has been given to you. This new identity is not based on what you have done but on what Christ has done for you. Saturday is a great day to rest in this truth and allow it to fill you with peace and gratitude. Celebrate the transformation that has already begun in your life through Christ, and rest in His love.
Reflection Question:
How can you rest in your new identity in Christ today, letting go of the pressure to perform or change on your own?